Collaborative Divorce in Illinois

Collaborative divorce offers a unique approach to resolving divorce-related issues. In this process, both spouses hire attorneys trained or knowledgeable in collaborative law. You and your attorneys, along with other professionals like financial advisors or child specialists (if needed), work together as a team to reach a mutually beneficial settlement.

Benefits of a Collaborative Divorce

1. Focus on Cooperation: Collaboration prioritizes open communication, respect, and a shared commitment to finding solutions that work for everyone involved.
2. Interest-Based Negotiation: The process focuses on understanding each spouse’s underlying interests and needs, leading to more creative and satisfying outcomes.
3. Reduced Conflict: By avoiding court battles, collaboration helps minimize stress and preserve relationships, especially important when children are involved.
4. Privacy: Discussions and negotiations occur in private meetings, protecting your family’s privacy.
5. Customized Solutions: Collaborative divorce allows you to create a tailored agreement that addresses your family’s unique circumstances and goals.

The Role of Mediation in a Collaborative Divorce

While collaborative divorce has its own structured process, mediation can still play a supportive role. A mediator can:

1. Help with Impasses: If the collaborative process stalls, a mediator can help you overcome roadblocks and find new paths to agreement.
2. Facilitate Difficult Conversations: A mediator can create a safe space for discussing emotionally charged topics, promoting understanding and compromise.
3. Offer a Neutral Perspective: A mediator can provide an objective viewpoint and help you see the bigger picture.

Is a Collaborative Divorce Right for You?

Collaborative divorce is a good option if you and your spouse:

1. Are committed to open communication and respectful dialogue
2. Want to minimize conflict and protect your children from animosity
3. Are willing to work together to create a mutually beneficial agreement
4. Want help and need input to stay on track and tackle what matters

Approximate Costs

• Attorney Fees: $7,500 – $20,000+ (depending on complexity and attorney’s rates)
• Other Professional Fees: May include fees for financial advisors, child specialists, etc.

Approximate Timeline:

6-18 months (depending on the complexity of the issues and the pace of negotiations)

Need Help with Your Collaborative Divorce in Illinois?

If you’re interested in exploring collaborative divorce in the Metro East (St. Clair County, Madison County, and surrounding areas), I can help. I’m been working on collaborative cases for a lot of my career and can guide you through the process, working with you and your spouse to achieve a positive and lasting resolution. Call my office or set a time where we can chat to see if I can use my 20+ years of experience to help you.

Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. It is essential to consult with an attorney to discuss your specific situation and legal options.