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Thoughts, insights and information about the divorce process. Nothing here should be considered to be legal advice. If you need legal advice, you need to hire a lawyer.

Shattering Divorce Stigma

November 26, 2024

Divorce is not a stigmatizing event. Modern divorces strive to be empowering to help people escape unhealthy marriages.

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Surviving the Holidays After Divorce

November 21, 2024

Surviving the holidays after divorce can give you the opportunity to thrive, have down time and create new holiday traditions. Here are some tips and some things to avoid during the holiday season.

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Pouring from an Empty Cup

November 18, 2024

Is the process of divorce leaving you feeling like you are pouring from an empty cup? Learn some strategies to help cope during the roller coaster of a divorce.

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Child Support in Illinois: Understanding the Basics

November 12, 2024

How is child support in Illinois calculated? Amanda breaks down how child support in Illinois is now calculated.

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Parenting Without Telepressure: Why Asynchronous Communication is a Game-Changer

November 7, 2024

Modern parenting can lead to pressure to immediately respond to your child’s other parent, which is called telepressure. Asynchonous communication can allow you to parent without telepressure, which can help you be a more focused, present parent

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Negotiation Tips for a Peaceful Divorce

November 1, 2024

Dividing Property in an Illinois Divorce: It’s Not Always Fair, Even, or Equal

October 28, 2024

Property division in an Illinois divorce is done on the basis of equity. Learn more about why this actually secures fair outcomes, even if they are not even or 50/50.

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High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Managing Emotions and Protecting Your Children

October 24, 2024

Stuck in a high-conflict co-parenting relationship. I am sharing some survival tips to help you weather the storm.

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Is DIY Divorce Right for You? An Honest Assessment

October 21, 2024

Thinking you want to handle your own divorce and use DIY forms. Read on for an honest assessment of why you will be disappointed and what you can di for a reasonable cost instead.

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Myths About Divorce (And Why They’re Wrong): Finding Peace Through Clarity

October 15, 2024

Everyone has myths and misconceptions they believe about divorces. Let’s explore some of the most common myths and why they are wrong.

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