Divorce Myths & Mistakes

Why I Can’t Give Legal Advice for Free

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Every week, I get calls or emails from people who just need “a quick question answered.” Most of them want Legal advice for free. Sometimes it’s about divorce, sometimes child support, or sometimes it’s a general, “Can you tell me what to do?” I understand the frustration. Lawyers can seem hard to reach, and it’s […]

When Keeping a Child from the Other Parent Backfires

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Divorce and parenting changes stir up strong emotions. You might feel angry, hurt, or protective. Sometimes you may even feel convinced that keeping your child close and away from the other parent is the safest or most loving choice. But one of the hardest lessons I’ve learned in more than 20 years of family law […]

Legal Separation vs. Divorce in Illinois

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When facing challenges in a marriage, the decision to separate can feel overwhelming. Understanding your options under Illinois law can help you make the best choice for your unique situation. Two common legal paths are legal separation and divorce. Each option offers distinct outcomes, and it’s important to know what they mean and how they […]

Behind on Child Support?

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Falling behind on child support payments can be a stressful and overwhelming experience. Whether due to job loss, financial hardship, or unexpected circumstances, it’s important to understand your options and take proactive steps to address the situation.   What to Do When You Can’t Pay Child Support in Illinois Before You Get Behind on Child […]

Is DIY Divorce Right for You? An Honest Assessment

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Considering a DIY divorce in Illinois? While the idea of saving money can be tempting, navigating the legal system without an experienced attorney can lead to costly missteps and a more stressful experience. Let’s explore some critical factors to consider before deciding if a DIY divorce is the right path for you. It is my […]

Hey, Can’t You Just Answer a Quick Legal Question?

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You’ve got a problem. Maybe it’s a dispute with a landlord, a weird thing with your car insurance, or an argument with a neighbor. It seems like it should have a simple answer, right? The internet is full of legal information, and you figure, “Why can’t I just ask a lawyer a quick legal question […]

Divorce Isn’t About Punishing Bad Spouses

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Going through a divorce can be one of the most emotionally turbulent experiences in life. Amidst the pain and anger, its common for people to want punishment for bad spouses– especially if things like infidelity or emotional abuse fueled the marital breakdown. However, Illinois courts take a different approach when it comes to divorce and […]

Dating During Your Divorce?

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The period between your marriage breaking down and divorce finalization is often fraught with complex emotions and a desire to move forward. For many, this includes exploring new relationships. However, dating during your divorce in Illinois carries legal and emotional complexities that require careful consideration.   Illinois: A No-Fault Divorce State   In Illinois, “no-fault” […]