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There are so many myths & misconceptions about divorce. Let’s clear up some of the most common divorce myths so you can approach your situation with accurate information: Divorce Myth #1: Divorces are Always Adversarial While divorce can be emotionally charged, it doesn’t have to be a war. Many couples can agree on terms amicably, […]

Even in the most amicable situations, it’s important to understand why lawyers cannot ethically represent both people in a divorce. Here is how the ethical rules prevent divorcing spouses from sharing a lawyer The Ethics Rules Prevent Both People from Sharing a Lawyer Confidentiality Rules: Attorneys have a duty to keep client information strictly confidential. […]

Getting divorced is a major life change, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Here’s a checklist of practical things to do once it’s final, so you can start navigating life after divorce Life After Divorce: 1. Manage Your Insurance Health Insurance: If you were on your ex-spouse’s plan, you’ll need to get your own coverage […]

Getting divorced is stressful, and drawn-out legal battles make it worse. But with careful planning and cooperation, you might be able to finalize your divorce much faster than you expected. Sometimes, I can even help you get divorced in 30 days or less. Here’s how: The Steps to Getting Divorced in 30 days Agree on […]

Getting a divorce is already stressful, so finding a cheaper option like online forms can be tempting. But the cheap online divorce forms stink and create more problems than they solve. The Many Problems of Online Divorce Forms   Outdated Info = Court Rejection: Laws change, especially in family law. Forms from a website might […]

Mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) assists two (or more) parties to reach a mutually-acceptable agreement without going to trial. The mediator does not make any decisions on behalf of the parties; instead, they help guide the parties in finding a solution that works best for […]

Divorce is difficult, and finding ways to co-parent with your ex-spouse can be even harder, especially if constant communication leads to arguments. Parallel parenting might be a good solution. In parallel parenting, divorced parents limit their communication with each other, instead focusing on making decisions about their children independently. This helps to reduce conflict and […]

Maintenance, also called alimony, involves one spouse potentially paying the other for financial support after divorce. I am asked a lot about whether it has to be paid, when its paid and for how long. So here is a breakdown about maintenance in the State of Illinois. What is Maintenance in Illinois? Simply put, maintenance, […]

During an Illinois divorce, one of the key things is how to divide your marital property. This can be confusing, so here’s a basic breakdown. This post is not legal advice — if you need legal advice, you should hire a lawyer. What is Marital Property?   Basically, any asset acquired during your marriage is […]

Think handling a straightforward divorce on your own is a smart way to save money? Think again! Even seemingly simple divorces often have hidden complexities. Here’s why it is a wise to hire a lawyer for your divorce: Legal Knowledge Matters: Divorce laws are nuanced. What looks like a simple agreement on paper can backfire […]