Parenting and Co-Parenting

Protecting Your Parenting Rights with a Parenting Plan

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When parents separate or divorce, a parenting plan becomes a fundamental document that defines their ongoing relationship with their children. In Illinois, where the focus is on the allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time, a well-drafted parenting plan plays a vital role in protecting each parent’s parenting rights and ensures their continued involvement in […]

Benefits of a Good Summer Parenting Plan

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Summer break: a time of sunshine, relaxation, and fun for kids. But for divorced parents, it can also bring logistical challenges and potential conflict. A well-defined, good summer parenting plan, established during your divorce, can be your greatest ally in navigating summer parenting time smoothly and ensuring a positive experience for your children.   The […]

Behind on Child Support?

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Falling behind on child support payments can be a stressful and overwhelming experience. Whether due to job loss, financial hardship, or unexpected circumstances, it’s important to understand your options and take proactive steps to address the situation.   What to Do When You Can’t Pay Child Support in Illinois Before You Get Behind on Child […]

Creating a Peaceful Environment for Your Children

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Divorce can be a challenging process for families, especially when emotions run high and disagreements are frequent. If you’re navigating this difficult path, focusing on strategies to manage conflict and prioritize your child’s well-being is essential. This post will explore practical co-parenting strategies, including the concept of parallel parenting, to help you create a peaceful […]

Who Claims the Kids on Taxes After Divorce in Illinois?

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Divorce brings a wave of changes. One of these is figuring out your taxes as a newly single individual. This can be one of the more complex adjustments. One of the most common questions I hear from clients is, “Who claims the kids on their taxes after divorce?” Let’s break down the rules and considerations […]

Strategies for Co-Parenting with A Difficult Ex

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Co-parenting after divorce can be challenging, especially when dealing with a difficult ex-spouse. Constant disagreements, emotional triggers, and communication breakdowns can make navigating your new family dynamic feel overwhelming. However, prioritizing your children’s well-being and establishing healthy boundaries are essential for creating a stable and supportive environment for everyone involved. Here are some of my […]

Tips for Navigating Co-Parenting After Divorce

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Divorce doesn’t end your role as a parent. In fact, it often demands an even stronger commitment to raising your children in a healthy, supportive way. Co-parenting after divorce means working together with your ex-spouse to create a stable and loving environment for your kids – even when it feels challenging.   At Flat Fee […]

Surviving the Holidays After Divorce

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The holiday season can be a joyous time, filled with family traditions and festive gatherings. But after a divorce, the holidays can also be a source of sadness, loneliness, and stress. Whether you have children or not, this time of year can be challenging to navigate. Here are some strategies to help with surviving the […]

Child Support in Illinois: Understanding the Basics

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If you’re going through a divorce or separation, understanding child support is essential. It’s a legal obligation designed to ensure your child’s financial needs are met, even when their parents live apart. But how is child support in Illinois calculated? Let’s break it down.   The Income Shares Model: A Team Effort   Unlike some […]

Parenting Without Telepressure: Why Asynchronous Communication is a Game-Changer

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Have you ever felt that constant pull that every text, email, or message requires an immediate response? This phenomenon is called “telepressure,” and it’s a growing problem in the digital age – impacting our parenting styles and our relationships with our co-parents or former partners. Asynchronous communication offers a welcome escape allowing parenting without telepressure. […]