Let’s be honest – when you don’t get along with your ex-spouse, high-conflict co-parenting after divorce can feel like navigating a minefield. At Flat Fee Divorce Solutions, I know that it’s difficult to always put your children’s needs first when you’re dealing with hurt feelings, resentment, and strained communication. But here are some ideas to […]
As a divorce lawyer, I see plenty of drama. But some of the most heartbreaking moments are the struggles during drop-offs and pick-ups. A child clinging to one parent, refusing to go with the other… it’s tough for everyone. Often, parents get entangled in blame: “You’re scaring them!” or “You’re turning them against me!”. While those […]
Navigating parenting after a divorce can be challenging, especially when co-parenting feels more like a battlefield than teamwork. If constant communication and shared decision-making with your ex-spouse seem impossible, “Do You” parallel parenting might be the solution you need. This approach prioritizes your child’s well-being while acknowledging that you and your ex-partner may have vastly […]
A good co-parenting plan that works acts as a roadmap. It guides you and your ex-partner in raising your children collaboratively even after your marriage dissolves. After 20+ years of practicing, and drafting hundreds of parenting plans, I know what it takes to create a co-parenting plan that works well. Here are my tips: […]
Divorce reshuffles your family, but your parenting responsibilities don’t disappear. Effective communication with your ex-spouse is crucial for raising your children in a healthy, stable environment. It won’t always be easy. To help, I have developed a list of strategies, but these strategies to help with co-parenting communication after divorce: 1. Shift Your Mindset […]
If you’re a parent facing divorce in Illinois, brace yourself for a change. “Child custody” is out; “Allocation of Parental Responsibilities and Parenting Time” is in. This isn’t just a change in wording; it signifies a major shift in how Illinois approaches parenting after separation or divorce. At Flat Fee Divorce Solutions, I understand navigating […]
The decision to divorce is never easy, and when children are involved, the emotional stakes feel even higher. Here are five tips to help tell your children about divorce with compassion, honesty, and a focus on your children’s well-being: 1. A United Front: When Possible, Tell Your Children Together If feasible and tensions […]
Traveling with kids after divorce can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be! With careful planning and a positive attitude, traveling as a solo parent after divorce can create incredible bonding experiences and unforgettable memories for you and your children. Here are five tips for traveling as a solo parent after divorce: […]
Divorce is never easy, but it can be made smoother and less stressful with an uncontested divorce. This is especially important when children are involved, as it minimizes conflict and promotes stability for them. But is an uncontested divorce actually possible if you and your spouse have children? In Belleville, Illinois, the answer is yes […]
Divorce often means adjusting to a tighter budget. But even with limited funds, there are plenty of ways to create meaningful memories and strengthen your bond with your children. Remember, quality time doesn’t have to come with a hefty price tag. Summers can really stretch the budget even harder. Here are 10 wallet-friendly ideas for spending […]
