The tide is turning in family courts across the United States. Traditionally, sole custody arrangements favored mothers, often leaving fathers with limited time with their children. But a growing body of research shows that children benefit from equal time with both parents, prompting states to consider a 50/50 parenting time presumption. Missouri Leads the Way […]
When parents are creating a parenting plan, flexibility can be just as important as the specific schedule itself. In fact, Illinois courts recognize that life is unpredictable, and children’s needs change over time. A rigid plan might seem secure at first, but it can lead to frustration and conflict down the road. Flexibility in Parental […]
When parents can’t agree on a parenting plan in Illinois, the Court steps in. They’ll consider 17 factors to determine what’s in the child’s best interests. Of those many factors, there is a special emphasis on the importance of cooperation between parents. Why Cooperation Matters Studies show that parents who cooperate raise children with […]
In the past, the typical parenting plan in Illinois often favored a traditional family structure.. Mothers were often assumed to be the primary caregivers, while fathers had limited visitation rights. This is the so-called “standard visitation plan”. But times have changed, and so have the courts’ views on parenting. Gone are the days of […]
If you’re a stepparent going through a divorce in Illinois, you might be wondering about your rights as a step-parent post-divorce to maintain a relationship with your stepchildren. Unfortunately, the legal landscape can be a bit complicated. Troxel v. Granville: A Landmark Case In the landmark case Troxel v. Granville, the U.S. Supreme Court […]
Mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) assists two (or more) parties to reach a mutually-acceptable agreement without going to trial. The mediator does not make any decisions on behalf of the parties; instead, they help guide the parties in finding a solution that works best for […]
Divorce is difficult, and finding ways to co-parent with your ex-spouse can be even harder, especially if constant communication leads to arguments. Parallel parenting might be a good solution. In parallel parenting, divorced parents limit their communication with each other, instead focusing on making decisions about their children independently. This helps to reduce conflict and […]
The weekend dad. You’ve seen him before. The dedicated father pushing the stroller on those precious Saturday mornings, his energy boundless during a game of backyard catch. He builds a legendary PB&J, seemingly balancing fun and responsibility. Many men think being a weekend dad is the only option after divorce. Let’s dispel some myths about […]
Illinois child support is determined pursuant to law, 750 ILCS 5/505. Child support is based on several factors: the number of children, the parenting time split, and both parents’ incomes. The state provides an online calculator to help you estimate your potential obligation or payment The calculator starts by asking for your gross monthly income […]
Divorce is tough on everyone, especially children. As a parent in Illinois facing this difficult process, you want to prioritize your children’s well-being, but figuring out how to break the news can be overwhelming. Psychology Today has a pretty good article that gives good guidance. I wanted to expand on some of their ideas. Here’s a guide […]
