Parenting and Co-Parenting

What is Mediation (and Why do I have to Go?)

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Mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) assists two (or more) parties to reach a mutually-acceptable agreement without going to trial. The mediator does not make any decisions on behalf of the parties; instead, they help guide the parties in finding a solution that works best for […]

What is Parallel Parenting and is it Right for You?

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Divorce is difficult, and finding ways to co-parent with your ex-spouse can be even harder, especially if constant communication leads to arguments. Parallel parenting might be a good solution. In parallel parenting, divorced parents limit their communication with each other, instead focusing on making decisions about their children independently. This helps to reduce conflict and […]

Weekend Dad Isn’t the Only Option

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The weekend dad. You’ve seen him before. The dedicated father pushing the stroller on those precious Saturday mornings, his energy boundless during a game of backyard catch. He builds a legendary PB&J, seemingly balancing fun and responsibility. Many men think being a weekend dad is the only option after divorce. Let’s dispel some myths about […]

How Illinois Child Support is Determined

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Illinois child support is determined pursuant to law, 750 ILCS 5/505. Child support is based on several factors: the number of children, the parenting time split, and both parents’ incomes. The state provides an online calculator to help you estimate your potential obligation or payment   The calculator starts by asking for your gross monthly income […]

How to tell your child or children you are getting divorced

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Divorce is tough on everyone, especially children. As a parent in Illinois facing this difficult process, you want to prioritize your children’s well-being, but figuring out how to break the news can be overwhelming. Psychology Today has a pretty good article that gives good guidance. I wanted to expand on some of their ideas. Here’s a guide […]

Celebrating Christmas and other Holidays when you share time with your kids

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As a divorce attorney, the fall & winter holiday season is often the most challenging time of year. Parents understandably want to maintain traditions and spend quality time with their children. However, without a clear plan, emotions can run high, leading to conflict and heartache. And attorneys are human too — they want to spend […]