Moving Forward

Dating After Divorce in Illinois

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The idea of dating after divorce can be both exciting and overwhelming. As you embark on this new chapter, it’s crucial to balance the emotional aspects of dating with the legal considerations unique to divorce proceedings in Illinois. This post explores how to approach dating thoughtfully, with an eye toward both personal well-being and potential […]

Don’t JADE!: Surviving the Holidays

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The holiday season is often portrayed as a joyous time filled with family gatherings, festive decorations, and an abundance of cheer. But for those recently divorced, it can be a time of mixed emotions, heightened stress, and unwelcome questions. If you’re navigating your first holiday season post-divorce , remember that you’re not alone. Many have […]

Survival Guide For Post-Divorce Holidays

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The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy and togetherness, but they can become a source of stress and uncertainty. After 20 years of practicing law, I have developed a survival guide for the post-divorce holidays. This guide can help, especially during the first year after separation, when figuring out how to handle […]

What Comes After Your Divorce, Part Three (the fun stuff)

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Divorce can be one of the most emotionally turbulent experiences in life. The end of a marriage signifies the loss of shared dreams, a disrupted routine, and a fundamental shift in your identity. Yet, within this upheaval lies a unique opportunity – a chance to rediscover yourself, to embrace newfound freedom, and to create a […]

What Comes After Your Divorce, Part Two (the boring stuff)

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Disclaimer: This blog post provides general information and is not intended as legal advice. Consult a qualified attorney for guidance specific to your situation.   The finalization of a divorce marks a significant legal milestone, but the practical process of untangling your lives and rebuilding your individual identity is far from over. In addition to […]

What Comes After Your Divorce, Part One (the scary stuff)

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Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult with a qualified attorney for personalized guidance regarding your specific divorce situation.   Divorce is a complex process, and it’s natural to have questions about what comes next. One common question that divorcing spouses have is whether or not […]

Moving Forward with Positivity: Tips for Healing and Growth After Divorce, Part 2

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In my previous post, we explored the first steps towards a positive post-divorce life, focusing on acknowledging and healing emotional wounds. Today, let’s dive deeper into the second phase of this transformative journey: growth after divorce to create a brighter, happier future that’s authentically yours. Cultivate a Growth Mindset After Divorce: Embrace the New You […]

Celebrating Divorce: Why It’s OK to Feel Happy

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Divorce is often associated with sadness and loss, but it can also mark the beginning of an exciting new chapter in your life. It’s okay to celebrate the end of a marriage, especially if it was causing you pain or unhappiness. Embracing this change can be an empowering step towards personal growth and happiness. Celebrating […]