A Satisficing Divorce

Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In fact, approaching your divorce with a willingness to compromise can lead to a faster, less expensive, and emotionally healthier outcome. This is the concept of satisficing is essential when it comes to settling without fighting. Satisficing means making a decision that is good enough, rather than striving for perfection. When couples focus on finding a solution that is satisfactory for both parties, they are more likely to reach an agreement and avoid the costs and emotional toll of fighting. A satisficing divorce is the perfect solution for couples looking for an affordable, fast, and stress-free way to end their marriage. If you want to read more about decision making in many areas of life, I do recommend Dr. Grawitch’s blog, A Hovercraft Full of Eels

Research indicates that reaching satisficing decisions are an effective strategy in negotiations. Negotiation participants who used a satisficing strategy in negotiation were more likely to reach a mutually beneficial agreement than those who pursued a perfect outcome. To do that, you accept no agreement is perfect, but instead striving for an outcome that meets both parties’ needs, couples can often reach an agreement that is satisfactory and sustainable.

What is Satisficing?

It’s a fancy term for aiming for “good enough” instead of perfect. When couples prioritize finding solutions that work for both sides, it’s often easier to reach agreements and avoid costly court fights.

Research Backs Up Satisficing

Studies show that people who focus on satisficing during negotiations are more likely to reach mutually beneficial agreements. That’s because they’re not hung up on getting everything they want. They’re focused on finding solutions that meet the most important needs of both parties.

Why Compromise is Key

• Saves Money: Divorce litigation can drain your finances. By agreeing on terms, you can avoid expensive attorney fees, court costs, and expert witnesses.
• Saves Time: Contested divorces can drag on for months or even years. Settling out of court gets you to the finish line faster.
• Less Emotional Stress: Fighting takes a toll. By choosing compromise, you’ll reduce stress for yourself, your ex-spouse, and any children involved.

The Benefits of Finding Common Ground

• Control Over Your Future: Instead of a judge making decisions, you and your spouse create a plan that works for your unique situation.
• More Sustainable Agreements: When you both contribute to the agreement, you’re more likely to stick to it in the long run.

I am here to help you take your negotiations and turn them into your documents from your divorce in St. Clair & Madison Counties, as well as most of the other counties in the Metro East (well, unless you are reading this on Opening Day of the 2023 St. Louis Cardinals Season, in which case, I am at Busch Stadium :-)). Elsewhere on my site, you can find some additional topics to discuss as well as some starting points for your journey. You can reach me through my website or by calling me.

Disclaimer; The purpose of this blog post is to offer general information only. It should not be considered a replacement for professional legal advice. Please consult with an attorney to address your individual legal needs and circumstances.