Decision Making and Communicating

Divorce Telepressure: Why You Shouldn’t Rush to Respond

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Divorce is an emotionally turbulent time, filled with raw feelings, complex decisions, and often contentious interactions with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse. In the midst of this turmoil, every text message, email, or phone call can feel like a minefield, triggering a sense of urgency to respond immediately. This urge to react falls under a concept called ‘ […]

Let’s Get Through This Together: Navigating Divorce in Illinois

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Divorce, once a tumultuous journey through fault-finding and courtroom battles, has evolved in Illinois. In 2016, the state adopted a no-fault divorce system, eliminating the need to prove wrongdoing and focusing on “irreconcilable differences” as the sole grounds for ending a marriage. This shift simplified the legal landscape but didn’t erase the emotional and practical […]

Save Money by Agreeing on Divorce Terms

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One of the most contentious aspects of divorce is often the division of marital assets. Disputes over property, finances, and belongings can quickly escalate into lengthy and expensive court battles. However, couples who can agree on how to divide their assets can save money, time and emotional stress. The High Cost of Litigation (how not […]

The Benefits of an Uncontested, Amicable or Agreed Divorce

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Divorce is undeniably tough – emotionally, legally, and financially. While the experience can feel overwhelming, it’s important to remember that there are ways to make the process smoother and less contentious. One such option is an uncontested divorce. What is an Uncontested Divorce?   In an amicable divorce, both spouses agree on all major aspects […]

When is the Right Time For a Divorce?

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Deciding whether to end a marriage is a deeply personal and often agonizing choice. It’s a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly. Divorce has significant emotional, financial, and legal implications. While there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, recognizing the signs that your marriage may be beyond repair can help you make an informed and empowered decision. Red […]

What to Expect During a Consultation with a Divorce Lawyer

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Taking the first step towards legal representation during a divorce can be daunting. A phone consultation with a divorce lawyer offers a valuable opportunity to explore your options, assess compatibility, and gain preliminary insights into the legal process. However, it’s important to set realistic expectations and understand the limitations of a consultation with a divorce […]

A Satisficing Divorce

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Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In fact, approaching your divorce with a willingness to compromise can lead to a faster, less expensive, and emotionally healthier outcome. This is the concept of satisficing is essential when it comes to settling without fighting. Satisficing means making a decision that is good enough, rather than striving for […]

Divorce Without Assets? A Good Lawyer is Still Essential!

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You might think the term “divorce without assets” means you own absolutely nothing. That’s not always true. In legal terms, assets include everything from your bank account and car to your clothes and furniture. Even if you don’t feel wealthy or have a big bank account, you still own things that have to be sorted […]

What Happens to the House in a Divorce?

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There is no best answer when it comes to your house in a divorce. But, here are the common ways a divorcing couple can resolve what to do with the house in a divorce. Selling the House in a Divorce   A lot of couples sell their house during a divorce. This gives you both […]

Some Additional Starting Ideas

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Knowing your marriage is over is just the beginning. Starting the divorce process can feel daunting, but taking proactive steps now can set the stage for a smoother, less stressful experience.  I am asked routinely by people on how to begin untangling their marriage.  Here is my list of ten additional starting points to help […]