When spouses cannot reach agreements on their own or through alternative methods like mediation or collaborative divorce, litigation becomes necessary. In a litigated divorce, each spouse hires an attorney to represent their interests in court. The attorneys present evidence, argue legal points, and a judge ultimately makes decisions about property division, parenting time, child support, […]
Collaborative divorce offers a unique approach to resolving divorce-related issues. In this process, both spouses hire attorneys trained or knowledgeable in collaborative law. You and your attorneys, along with other professionals like financial advisors or child specialists (if needed), work together as a team to reach a mutually beneficial settlement. Benefits of a Collaborative […]
When an uncontested divorce isn’t possible, but you still want to avoid a contentious courtroom battle, a negotiated divorce offers a middle ground. In a negotiated divorce, you and your spouse each have your own attorney who advocates for your interests and helps you negotiate a settlement that addresses key divorce-related issues. Benefits of […]
Divorce is one of life’s most significant transitions, and choosing the right path to navigate it can profoundly impact your financial well-being, emotional health, and future family dynamics. In Illinois, there are four primary ways to get divorced: an uncontested divorce; a negotiated divorce; a collaborative divorce and a litigated or contested divorce. The first […]
Divorce is a complex and often emotional process, and for military families, unique challenges can add additional layers of complexity. From managing active duty schedules to coordinating parenting plans across long distances, military families face circumstances that require specialized understanding and solutions. I will explore some of the key considerations for military families facing divorce […]
Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, and balancing the demands of work and family during this time can feel overwhelming. Navigating your career while managing the emotional, logistical, and legal aspects of divorce requires a thoughtful approach. This post offers practical tips to help you balance your divorce and your career. Your […]
When you’re facing the prospect of divorce, the timing of your filing can have a significant impact on your finances, family life, and emotional well-being. While there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, starting the process early in the year can offer distinct advantages. Let’s explore why taking action early in the year helps you have the fresh […]
The Grey Rock Strategy: Your Secret Divorce Weapon Divorce is rarely easy, and emotions can run high. When your spouse or co-parent thrives on conflict, it can make an already challenging situation even worse. If you find yourself facing constant drama, arguments, or emotional outbursts, the “grey rock” strategy might be your secret weapon. […]
Divorce can be a difficult and emotional experience, and societal misconceptions can add unnecessary stress to an already challenging time. One common myth is that divorce carries a heavy social stigma, particularly for women with children. Another misconception is that women with children should retain their married name to avoid confusion or judgment. Let’s debunk […]
Going through a divorce can be one of the most emotionally turbulent experiences in life. Amidst the pain and anger, its common for people to want punishment for bad spouses– especially if things like infidelity or emotional abuse fueled the marital breakdown. However, Illinois courts take a different approach when it comes to divorce and […]
