Divorce & the Divorce Process

Pets and Divorce

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Pets are more than just property in Illinois. They’re considered family members, and their well-being matters in divorce proceedings. But what does that mean for you and your pet if you’re facing separation or divorce? Pets Aren’t Furniture: Illinois Law Considers Their Well-being Unlike most states that treat pets as simple possessions, Illinois courts recognize […]

Rapid Unplanned Disassembly: A Metaphor for Unexpected Divorce

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Few things are as devastating as an unexpected divorce. In engineering, an unexpected catastrophe is called a rapid unexpected disassembly or RUD. RUD sounds a lot more clinical than blew up. Some people experience the same thing with their marriage. One day, their marriage experiences a RUD and blows up out of the blue. Whether […]

Financial Infidelity and Divorce: What You Need to Know

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When going through a divorce in Illinois, understanding your financial rights is crucial. This means knowing what assets you’re potentially entitled to and ensuring everything is on the table during negotiations. Hiding assets during a marriage or divorce is known as financial infidelity. Separate vs. Marital Property: What’s Yours? Illinois law divides your belongings into […]

The Consequences of Not Telling Your Lawyer the Truth During a Divorce

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It might be tempting to hide assets or debts during a divorce, hoping for a bigger piece of the pie. But let’s be clear: honesty is not just the ethical thing to do; it’s the smartest strategy for your future. Not telling your lawyer the truth can have devastating consequences.  Telling Your Lawyer the Truth […]

Why I Don’t Represent Both Spouses in a Divorce

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Even in the most amicable situations, it’s important to understand why lawyers cannot ethically represent both people in a divorce. Here is how the ethical rules prevent divorcing spouses from sharing a lawyer The Ethics Rules Prevent Both People from Sharing a Lawyer Confidentiality Rules: Attorneys have a duty to keep client information strictly confidential. […]

Divorced in 30 days?

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Getting divorced is stressful, and drawn-out legal battles make it worse. But with careful planning and cooperation, you might be able to finalize your divorce much faster than you expected. Sometimes, I can even help you get divorced in 30 days or less. Here’s how: The Steps to Getting Divorced in 30 days Agree on […]

What is Mediation (and Why do I have to Go?)

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Mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) assists two (or more) parties to reach a mutually-acceptable agreement without going to trial. The mediator does not make any decisions on behalf of the parties; instead, they help guide the parties in finding a solution that works best for […]

Maintenance (or Alimony) in the State of Illinois

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Maintenance, also called alimony, involves one spouse potentially paying the other for financial support after divorce. I am asked a lot about whether it has to be paid, when its paid and for how long. So here is a breakdown about maintenance in the State of Illinois. What is Maintenance in Illinois? Simply put, maintenance, […]