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Thoughts, insights and information about the divorce process. Nothing here should be considered to be legal advice. If you need legal advice, you need to hire a lawyer.

The Rise and Fall of the Standard Visitation Plan

April 11, 2023

When a couple with a child or children decides to divorce or no longer live in the same house, they have to create a parenting plan as a part of their divorce. One of the most common parenting plans I saw early in my career was the so-called “standard visitation plan”. It is the common default plan that is chosen by the court after trial because it is easy to draft and fits the older model of one parent should be the home base for children. But it does not have to be your default.

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Understanding Your Rights as a Step-Parent Post-Divorce

April 7, 2023

Divorce is a difficult process for the entire family, and it can be particularly trying for step-parents who have been involved in their step-children’s lives. If you are going through a divorce, or recently got divorced, you may be wondering what your rights are when it comes to your former step-child. The Troxel v. Granville case is an important precedent that can help answer this question. 550 U.S. 57 (2000)

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Why You Should Not Go to Law School

April 3, 2023

Law school has long been considered a desirable career path – especially for those that like to debate. However, in recent years, the demand for lawyers has decreased, and the cost of attending law school has skyrocketed. This has led many people to question the value of going to law school and whether it is a smart financial decision – and it rarely is. So, here are some of the reasons why you should not go to law school:

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Baseball helped me be a better lawyer

March 29, 2023

As a divorce lawyer, I’ve seen my fair share of difficult and emotional cases. Navigating the complexities of the law can be challenging, but by drawing on lessons from my favorite pastime—watching baseball—I have learned that law, just like baseball, are both games of strategy, execution, and teamwork.

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The Myth of the $500 Divorce: Why Cheap Isn’t Always the Best Option

March 24, 2023

Most people know that getting a divorce isn’t cheap. But some websites suggest that divorces should be suspiciously cheap—as low as $500, in fact. At first glance, this might seem like a great idea. Who doesn’t want to save money? But when it comes to divorce, you get what you pay for. Let’s look at why the $500 divorce myth is just that—a myth—and why hiring an experienced attorney is your best bet when it comes to navigating the complex process of getting divorced.

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The Consequences of Not Telling Your Lawyer the Truth During a Divorce

March 21, 2023

Navigating a divorce is never easy, and it can be tempting to try to cut corners or omit certain details in order to get the outcome that you want. However, it is essential that you always tell your lawyer the truth during a divorce. Not doing so can have serious consequences both legally and personally.

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A Satisficing Divorce

March 17, 2023

Divorce is a complicated and emotional process that can be both time-consuming and expensive. While the decision to end a marriage is rarely easy, it is often necessary for the well-being of both parties involved. However, the way that you approach your divorce can make a significant difference in the outcome by reaching a satisficing outcome. A “satisficing” decision is one that is good enough rather than trying to achieve a perfect outcome. Satisficing decisions and settling without fighting can be beneficial for both parties involved in divorce.

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10 Myths & Misconceptions about Divorces

March 14, 2023

Divorce is one of the most challenging experiences anyone can go through because it is a death of your marriage. Apart from the emotional stress, there is also the legal process to deal with, which can be confusing and overwhelming. Unfortunately, there are many myths and misconceptions about the divorce court that can make the process even more challenging. Here are some of the untrue statements I have heard over the years

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Why I Don’t Represent Both Spouses in a Divorce

March 10, 2023

One of the questions I am asked the most frequently is whether I can represent both parties in a divorce. The short answer is no. But why? After all, if two people are legally permitted to enter into a contract with one another, why can’t they just pick one attorney to represent them both? Here’s an overview of the reasons why I do not represent both parties in a divorce.

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Navigating Life After Divorce

March 6, 2023

Divorce is a difficult process. It requires making a variety of changes to ensure that your life is set up and running smoothly once the proceedings are finished. One of the most difficult parts is coming to terms with the change—and making sure you’re covered in every way possible.

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