Where You Live Matters – When It Comes to Your Divorce
Did you know that the place to file for your divorce might not be the same county where you got married? Yep – where you file your divorce is where you live now, which may or may not be where you said “I do”
Lawyers are Not Robots
In the age of technology, it’s easy to forget that lawyers are people too. They’re not robots who are waiting by the phone to answer any question 24/7. They have lives outside of work, and they can’t be expected to be available at all times.
50/50 Plans that Work
A divorce can be a complex and emotional time for everyone involved, especially children. Dividing assets and determining responsibilities can be overwhelming, but figuring out how to divide time with your children can be one of the most challenging aspects of a divorce. That’s why 50/50 parenting plans have become increasingly popular in Illinois, offering divorcing couples the opportunity to create a schedule that works for both parties without the harsh foundation of being a weekend parent
Missouri now has a presumption of 50/50 parenting (but Illinois does not)
There has been a growing trend to give parents equal time with their children. Its not quite the law (yet) in Illinois, but if you agree with your soon-to-be-ex, equal parenting can be your reality.
The Importance of Flexibility in Parental Allocation
When parents divorce, one of the most important decisions they have to make is how to allocate parenting time with their children. In Illinois, the law presumes that it is in the best interests of children to have a close and continuing relationship with both parents. This means that the court will generally order a parenting plan that allows both parents to have significant time with their children. While the plan itself has specific times when each parent is with their child, long term, flexibility is necessary.
The Best Interest of the Child and the Importance of Cooperation
The best interest of the child is the most important factor that the court will consider when allocating parenting time
How to Decide Between Keeping Your Married Name or Choosing Your Birth Name
When it comes to deciding your name after a divorce, there is no right answer. After all, you’ve been living with one name for years and suddenly you must make the decision whether to keep your married name or choose your birth name or former name. How do you decide? Let’s look at the options and some of the considerations that come with them.
Pets and Divorce
Pets are considered family members by many people – including by me. They provide companionship, love, and support. When a couple gets divorced, the question of what to do with the pets can be a difficult one. In Illinois, there are some laws governing the division of pets in divorce. However, the courts will consider the best interests of the pet when making a decision about custody.
Rapid Unplanned Disassembly: A Metaphor for Unexpected Divorce
In engineering, “rapid unplanned disassembly” (RUD) is a term used to describe the sudden and unexpected failure of a machine or system. As of right now, that term is trending on twitter because SpaceX’s Starship exploded during launch. A RUD can be caused by a variety of factors, such as a design flaw, manufacturing defect, or operator error. RUD can also be a metaphor for divorce. When a marriage ends, it can feel like a sudden and unexpected failure. One spouse may have through they had a happy marriage but then something happens and the relationship falls apart.
Financial Infidelity and Divorce: What You Need to Know
It’s no secret that a major cause of divorce is financial infidelity. Whether it’s hidden bank accounts, undisclosed debts, surprise bills, or secret spending; all of these factors can put a serious strain on a marriage. And when the time comes to end things, financial infidelity can make navigating the divorce process even trickier. So, what should you do if your spouse is hiding money or trying to keep you in the dark about their finances. Here are some ideas to find hidden assests and debts,