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Thoughts, insights and information about the divorce process. Nothing here should be considered to be legal advice. If you need legal advice, you need to hire a lawyer.

Baseball helped me be a better lawyer

March 29, 2023

As a divorce lawyer, I’ve seen my fair share of difficult and emotional cases. Navigating the complexities of the law can be challenging, but by drawing on lessons from my favorite pastime—watching baseball—I have learned that law, just like baseball, are both games of strategy, execution, and teamwork.

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The Myth of the $500 Divorce: Why Cheap Isn’t Always the Best Option

March 24, 2023

Most people know that getting a divorce isn’t cheap. But some websites suggest that divorces should be suspiciously cheap—as low as $500, in fact. At first glance, this might seem like a great idea. Who doesn’t want to save money? But when it comes to divorce, you get what you pay for. Let’s look at why the $500 divorce myth is just that—a myth—and why hiring an experienced attorney is your best bet when it comes to navigating the complex process of getting divorced.

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The Consequences of Not Telling Your Lawyer the Truth During a Divorce

March 21, 2023

Navigating a divorce is never easy, and it can be tempting to try to cut corners or omit certain details in order to get the outcome that you want. However, it is essential that you always tell your lawyer the truth during a divorce. Not doing so can have serious consequences both legally and personally.

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A Satisficing Divorce

March 17, 2023

Divorce is a complicated and emotional process that can be both time-consuming and expensive. While the decision to end a marriage is rarely easy, it is often necessary for the well-being of both parties involved. However, the way that you approach your divorce can make a significant difference in the outcome by reaching a satisficing outcome. A “satisficing” decision is one that is good enough rather than trying to achieve a perfect outcome. Satisficing decisions and settling without fighting can be beneficial for both parties involved in divorce.

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10 Myths & Misconceptions about Divorces

March 14, 2023

Divorce is one of the most challenging experiences anyone can go through because it is a death of your marriage. Apart from the emotional stress, there is also the legal process to deal with, which can be confusing and overwhelming. Unfortunately, there are many myths and misconceptions about the divorce court that can make the process even more challenging. Here are some of the untrue statements I have heard over the years

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Why I Don’t Represent Both Spouses in a Divorce

March 10, 2023

One of the questions I am asked the most frequently is whether I can represent both parties in a divorce. The short answer is no. But why? After all, if two people are legally permitted to enter into a contract with one another, why can’t they just pick one attorney to represent them both? Here’s an overview of the reasons why I do not represent both parties in a divorce.

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Navigating Life After Divorce

March 6, 2023

Divorce is a difficult process. It requires making a variety of changes to ensure that your life is set up and running smoothly once the proceedings are finished. One of the most difficult parts is coming to terms with the change—and making sure you’re covered in every way possible.

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Divorced in 30 days?

March 1, 2023

I can sometimes make a super-fast divorce happen.

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Online Divorce Forms Stink!

February 24, 2023

Filing for a divorce is not easy and its not cheap. It can be an emotional and confusing time, and the last thing you need is to worry about legal paperwork. Unfortunately, a lot of people are turning to online divorce papers without understanding the complications or true cost that come with it.

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What is Mediation (and Why do I have to Go?)

February 21, 2023

Mediation is an alternative dispute process that is required when parents are unable to resolve disputes around parenting time (custody & visitation) or parenting responsibilities, such as medical decisions for the children

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