10 Wallet-Friendly Kid Summer Activities
Divorce often means adjusting to a tighter budget. But even with limited funds, there are plenty of ways to create meaningful memories and strengthen your bond with your children. Remember, quality time doesn’t have to come with a hefty price tag. Summers can really stretch the budget even harder. Here are 10 wallet-friendly ideas for spending […]
Getting Divorced While at SAFB with an Out-of-State Spouse
Getting Divorced While at SAFB with an Out-of-State Spouse: What You Need to Know If you’re a military member stationed at Scott Air Force Base (SAFB) and considering a divorce from an out-of-state spouse, the process has its own unique challenges. These are challenges that I have helped clients with in my 20+ years of […]
June Divorce in Edwardsville
Why June is the Perfect Time to Start Your Uncontested Divorce in Edwardsville, IL Considering an uncontested divorce in Edwardsville, IL? While there’s no single “best” time to navigate this life transition, June offers unique advantages, particularly for couples with children. Here’s how a June divorce in Edwardsville, IL can benefit you and your family: […]
How the Rules of Holes Apply to a Divorce
A long time ago, I was bored and flipping through the channels when I happened upon the movie adaption of Louis Sachar’s book, Holes. I had never read the book, only the excerpt when I worked in a bookstore in college. Regardless, the movie inspired me to create my rules of holes and apply them […]
The Sunk-Cost Fallacy of Staying Unhappily Married
The Sunk-Cost Fallacy of Staying Unhappily Married The sunk-cost fallacy of staying unhappily married is a common trap: You’ve invested years, maybe even decades, into your marriage. You’ve built a life together, raised children, shared countless memories. But you are deeply unhappy. If the thought of starting over feels daunting, you are allowing the sunk-cost […]
Kids do not Decide Where They Live
When parents divorce or separate in Illinois, deciding where the child will live can be a major source of conflict. But what role do children’s wishes play in these decisions? The answer is not what you think. Kids do not decide where they live, even if they are 13 (or 17). The Judge’s Decision, Not […]
Divorce Financial Survival Guide
Divorce. The word itself can send shivers down your spine, evoking a whirlwind of emotions and anxieties. But amidst the emotional turmoil, another layer of stress emerges – the financial uncertainty. Navigating life on a budget after divorce can feel like scaling a mountain blindfolded! My Divorce Financial Survival Guide offers practical tips and […]
Finding the Right Lawyer for You
Even in an amicable uncontested divorce, hiring a lawyer is crucial. A divorce attorney can help navigate the complexities of Illinois law, ensure your rights are protected, and help you craft a fair and legally sound divorce settlement. However, choosing the right lawyer for your situation and budget requires careful consideration and research. […]
Creating Your Post-Divorce Budget
An uncontested divorce may be less fraught with conflict than a contested one, but that doesn’t mean it’s financially simple. As you disentangle your shared life, creating your post-divorce budget is a critical step to take before your divorce. It ensures a stable transition into this new chapter. It’s best to approach this process proactively […]
Organizing for Your Uncontested Divorce
While the decision to divorce is emotionally difficult, choosing an uncontested path can make the process less adversarial. However, even the most amicable uncontested divorce requires careful preparation and organization. Step two is all about getting your ducks in a row – getting organized for your uncontested divorce. This includes reviewing essential paperwork, documenting assets, […]
