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Divorce can be a marathon. It can feel like an endless series of emotional, logistical, and financial hurdles, leaving you drained and depleted. If you’re a parent, the added responsibility of caring for your children during this tumultuous time can be overwhelming. But what happens when you’re running on empty? When your emotional reserves are […]

If you’re going through a divorce or separation, understanding child support is essential. It’s a legal obligation designed to ensure your child’s financial needs are met, even when their parents live apart. But how is child support in Illinois calculated? Let’s break it down.   The Income Shares Model: A Team Effort   Unlike some […]

Have you ever felt that constant pull that every text, email, or message requires an immediate response? This phenomenon is called “telepressure,” and it’s a growing problem in the digital age – impacting our parenting styles and our relationships with our co-parents or former partners. Asynchronous communication offers a welcome escape allowing parenting without telepressure. […]

Divorce doesn’t have to be a screaming match. In fact, more and more divorcing couples can find a way to compromise to have a peaceful divorce. However, many people have no idea where to begin. Here are some tips to help you negotiate for a peaceful divorce.   1. Start with Compromise and Collaboration for […]

Divorce can be messy, especially when it comes to dividing your belongings. You might think splitting everything down the middle is the “fairest” solution or that you deserve more than your soon-to-be-ex, but Illinois law takes a different approach. The courts apply the concept of equity when dividing property in an Illinois divorce.   So, […]

Let’s be honest – when you don’t get along with your ex-spouse, high-conflict co-parenting after divorce can feel like navigating a minefield. At Flat Fee Divorce Solutions, I know that it’s difficult to always put your children’s needs first when you’re dealing with hurt feelings, resentment, and strained communication. But here are some ideas to […]

Considering a DIY divorce in Illinois? While the idea of saving money can be tempting, navigating the legal system without an experienced attorney can lead to costly missteps and a more stressful experience. Let’s explore some critical factors to consider before deciding if a DIY divorce is the right path for you. It is my […]

Divorce is a complex and emotional journey. Often, misconceptions and anxieties can cloud the process, making it even more stressful. As a solo attorney with over 20 years of experience in Illinois divorce law, I’ve seen these 7 myths about divorce lead to unnecessary conflict and have people worried to start down the path of […]

As a divorce lawyer, I see plenty of drama. But some of the most heartbreaking moments are the struggles during drop-offs and pick-ups. A child clinging to one parent, refusing to go with the other… it’s tough for everyone. Often, parents get entangled in blame: “You’re scaring them!” or “You’re turning them against me!”. While those […]

Divorce proceedings often create an atmosphere focused on “winning.” Winning a larger share of property, winning more time with the kids, or winning a sense of revenge over an ex-partner… This adversarial mindset can turn divorce into a battleground, inflicting lasting damage on everyone involved. But what if we could change the narrative? What if […]